The Parent Trap

Ladies….Ladies….Ladies….Haven’t you learned ANYTHING YET?  I mean REALLY…How many examples do you need? Why do INSIST on having kids by men JUST BECAUSE you think the kid is going to bring you closer together…or make him a “better man”? I strongly suggest you don’t count on that BULLSHYT! Don’t even send yourself through the unnecessary heartache by getting your hopes high…cause really, you’re just setting yourself up for failure. Not you or that kid can make a man want to be with you or do right by you…It has to be something HE WANTS…And if you feel like you have to bring a baby in the picture to “make shyt better”, that should be a red flag right there.  If it wasn’t working before the baby…How the hell do you think it’s gonna be with one? Some of you need to ask yourselves that now, I’m sure.

And MEN-

How about YOU stop having UNPROTECTED sex with bytches YOU DON’T wanna have a kid by.  If you re banging a girl raw, I am going to assume that you can see her baring your child, if not…then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING NYGGA! I can’t even count how many women that have got pregnant on some pre-cum or “pull out” shyt. Nyggas wanna beat it up…then wanna bust up when shyt gets real…All I’m saying is these things can be prevented.

Back to the ladies!

To all the women USING THEIR CHILD to get money…I HONESTLY WISH I could slap all yall weak ass bytches, but instead I gotta message for you.  Karma is a muthafucka and shyt like that WILL BITE YOU IN THE ASS ONE DAY.  I seriously feel bad for some of these fathers that are getting RAPED by child support.  Not all of them deserve to be on it. I know a few GOOD fathers on child support, simply because shyt didn’t work out between the parents. Look bytch…just cause that nygga don’t wanna be with you or wasn’t a good man to you if he wasn’t, that doesn’t mean you go butt fuck this nygga outta all his bread.  Then, yall bytches don’t even be spending the money on the kid! Yall out here bossy as hell off that child support dough. Bytch, SLAP YO SELF!

I also wanna slap the broads that deliberately not allow their children to see or talk to their father just because “they’re mad at them.” If that’s not the dumbest shyt I’ve ever heard of, I don’t know what is. It’s a damn shame some women don’t give men a chance on being the best father they are capable of being because of their fucked up attitudes.  Bytch, you need to keep in mind that everything ain’t about YOU or YALL…but it’s ALWAYS about the best interest of the child.

And MEN-

I don’t give two shyts how much you don’t wanna have a baby, if the woman made the decision to keep it, whether you wanted to or not, be a man and take care of your responsibilities.  Know that being a father is more than just providing money to make sure they’re good, but you have to be there.  I know a lot of men that truly believe that they are good fathers just because they buy them whatever they want…but it’s so much more to it. You have to provide time, love, and knowledge as well. All that seeing your child once every other week or month is for the birds. The sad part is that most of the fathers that are absent in their child’s lives had absent father’s of their own. You would think that would encourage them to be a better father that their father was to them, but in a lot of cases it just doesn’t work like that.  Most men that didn’t have a real father figure in their lives, don’t know how to be one once they become a father themselves.  So sad…but so true.

Another thing ladies-

Can you STOP having babies by drug dealers and gangstas and expecting them GIVE IT ALL UP when a child comes in the world.  True indeed, I wouldn’t want my child growing up in that kind of environment…but ladies most of the time we go into situations KNOWING what we are getting ourselves into. All I’m saying is…DON’T PLAY YOURSELF. CHOOSE YOUR MEN WISELY!

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